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There’re few things as exciting and invigorating as outdoor sex. It’s a burst of raw primal lust inspired by your natural surroundings. If you ever wanted to do it as nature intended, then here are some tips to get you started.

Firstly, you will have to decide what kind of outdoor experience you want. Do you want to have a quickie in your car? Have you always wanted to have a naughty picnic? Or maybe you just want to have poolside sex?

Whatever outdoor sex you want, make sure you’re safe and private. There’s no point in ruining your orgasm with a shocked spectator who may not like what they’re seeing. Do your research and visit your designated spot beforehand to see if it’s quiet and discreet. Some outdoor areas, such as nudist beaches, are known for being sex hotspots. Some places are even known for being popular dogging locations (having public sex while others watch). You could also ask around on swinging forums to see where people are getting it on.

Setting the scene

Once you’ve decided what kind of sex you want and where you want it, it’s time to set the scene. That means getting everything ready that you’ll need on your adventure. Even simple car sex somewhere in a quiet area is not as easy as it seems. You would need to ensure your windows are covered, lube is available and condoms if necessary. You may also want to have some wet wipes handy for clean-up. If you want to have an outdoor experience in a nature reserve somewhere, you could pack some food, such as chocolate covered strawberries, that you can enjoy under the trees before eating each other.

Here is a checklist of some items you might want to bring along:

  •         Condoms – just make sure you clean up after yourself
  •         Lube – this is definitely helpful, especially if it’s dry and hot outside
  •         Food/snacks – light snacks are better
  •         Water – it’s important to stay hydrated if you’re going to be outside in the sun
  •         Sunscreen – getting sunburnt while pumping by the pool is no fun
  •         A blanket – so that you don’t get grass up your ass
  •         Comfortable fitting clothes – it’s all about easy access

Adult Toys to bring along

Remote controlled sex toys for couples, such as vibrating eggs, can help make your outdoor experience that much more epic. You could insert the egg into your partner while you play with the remote in public. It’s a great way to get the fun going, especially on a hiking trip or picnic. They can also be used discretely so that no one but you and your partner will know what’s up. Other toys can also be used, such as dildos, but it won’t be as discreet.

Sex positions to try

To fully enjoy your outdoor sex, you may want to stick to positions that provide easy access and are quick to initiate. Positions like doggystyle can be achieved literally anywhere and anytime. You could also play around with cowgirl, which is great if your partner is wearing a skirt. For those who are more athletic, you could try standing sex, which can be awesome if you have a tree to support you. Experiment at home with positions that you feel comfortable with before going outside. If it doesn’t work well for you behind closed doors, it probably won’t work well outside in the elements.

Be patient!

If you try to rush something as good as outdoor sex, you might end up disappointed. As mentioned, do your research, planning and experimentation before heading for the wild. You might just discover a primal side to yourself you never knew existed!

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