Paddles & Whips

It’s thought that only those who are expert BDSM enthusiasts use adult toys such as paddles or whips. While it is true that experienced kinksters know how to handle discipline enforcing toys, the truth is that even newbies can enjoy the thrill of a well-delivered spank.

At the end of the day, you don’t need to wait for permission to start enjoying your fetish!

Where to start?

It’s good to know which toy does what so you can choose the one that’s right for you. Here is a brief overview of some pain inducing, but pleasurable toys.

Floggers – These usually consist of several straps or tails that are attached together on a handle. Whoever is holding the flogger can use it to lash their partner, producing visible red marks if done hard enough. Alternatively, a flogger can be used to gently caress and tease your partner’s body, until they’re ready for something more hardcore.

Ticklers – This toy is perfect for teasing your partner and making them wet with excitement. Ticklers are usually designed with several thin and long tails connected to a handle, which can be dragged across your partner’s body. The resulting sensations are in stark contrast to the punishment of a flogger. Like sweet and sour.

Whips – There are different kinds of whips, which commonly include a single long tail designed to lash a submissive partner. However, you can also get a crop whip, which is a short type of whip without a lash. The design of a crop whip is often used in horse riding but can also be used to “ride” your partner.

Paddles – These are handheld toys with a flat surface that can be used to spank your partner. The result is a painful sting that many consider to be extremely pleasurable.

How do I get started with impact play?

Bringing any form of discipline such as spanking into your relationship starts with one thing – communication. Without proper communication, it won’t be enjoyable. Talk with your partner about what you want to try, why you want to try it and what you expect. Then, let them share their views, including their expectations and concerns. Once you have both agreed, you’re ready to start.

Part of your conversation should include a safeword. This is a specific word you or your partner can use to let the other know it’s time to stop. Sometimes during rough BDSM sessions, there may be a lot of screaming, moaning and shouting. With a safeword, you’ll know immediately if anything has gone too far.

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