Fetish & BDSM

BDSM involves erotic roleplaying such as bondage, discipline, dominance and submission, sadomasochism, and other fetishes. There are many different things that satisfy people’s inner desires and there are even more sex toys to help them do it. Whether you’re a professional in the BDSM lifestyle with a need for expert toys and accessories, or you’re a novice who is looking to put their foot in the door, Passionfruit can accommodate you. Curious? Read more...


Our BDSM and Fetish sex toys will inspire your imagination to be extra naughty. Passionfruit’s online adult store is also one of the best in South Africa, giving you a wide range of high-quality BDSM and Fetish toys to choose from. Some well-known BDSM and fetish toys include cuffs, collars and leashes, paddles and whips. We also have a collection of toys from the Fifty Shades of Grey Toys range.

Safety first!

There’s a good reason why there are people considered professionals in this lifestyle. There are many things to consider before experimenting with BDSM. The first and most important is safety. Ensure that you are aware of the risks involved with any roleplaying you intend to do. Also make sure you fully understand the toys and accessories that you want to use in your sessions.

Before attempting anything, have an open discussion with your partner where both of you decide what you would like to experience as well as what your boundaries are.

Types of Fetish and BDSM toys

There are many exciting BDSM and fetish toys to choose from. These are just some of the most popular ones:

● Fetish lingerie

● Gags and muzzles

● Hood and masks

● Electro sex toys

● Medical sex toys

● Paddles and whips

Clamps and torture

BDSM toys and accessories come in a variety of materials also. Some are better geared towards rougher treatment, such as steel, whereas others can provide a more sensual experience, such as leather.

How do I get started in BDSM?

If you’ve never experience the BDSM lifestyle before, then a good place to start would be to determine what your role is. Are you a Dom? Maybe a sub? Maybe you want to try both roles?

These roles may change as time goes on but knowing what you want to get out of the experience will help you decide what sex toys to buy. One very important aspect of the lifestyle is for you and your partner to have a safe word. This word is used during BDSM session when one of the partners decides they’ve had enough.

What sex toy should I use?

Once you’ve decided what role you’d like to fulfill, you can then decide what sex toy to use. If, for example, you’d like to explore a submissive role, you could try a paddle to get spanked with, or a gag to muffle yourself.

Some fetish toys may require more experience and knowledge, such as medical sex toys. Take time to understand the sex toy, what it is used for and maybe even speak to people who’ve used it before. There are many online forums and professional BDSM practitioners where you can find useful info about lifestyle.

Get your BDSM and Fetish toys discretely with us

Are you ready to explore your deepest desires? Why not do it with an online adult sex shop in South Africa that understands your needs? Passionfruit is one of the best sex stores in SA and hosts a wide range of toys for all fetishes.

All our toys are also shipped discretely in plain packaging while your information is protected when shopping online with us.

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Fetish & BDSM

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Collar & Lead Set (ET-1)

Keep your sub close at all times with this deluxe bondage collar and leash. It is sturdy, durable and comfortable, ensuring a quality submissive experience.
Price R850.00
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Collar & Wrist Restraint Set (ET-2)

When a submissive is wearing this bondage set, they are exposed to the desires of their eager partner. It consists of a collar with handcuffs that can easily be detached from each other using the clip fasteners.
Price R1,279.00
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Collar & Ankle Restraint Set (ET-3)

Bind your partner's ankles and neck together with this beautiful collar with ankle cuffs and enjoy the feeling of control it gives you. Then take full advantage of your partner’s vulnerable position!
Price R1,269.00
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Thigh & Wrist Cuff - Restraint Set

Become strict with your partner and get them to learn obedience with this special thigh and wrist cuff set. With it, you can tie your sub's hands to his or her thighs. This way you have complete control for an enjoyable BDSM experience.
Price R1,199.00
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Under Mattress Restraint Set

Restrain your partner and make your bondage sessions even more exciting with this bed restraint system. Because of the adjustable straps, the system fits on any mattress, so is ideal for those who want to get kinky anywhere where there is a bed.
Price R1,499.00
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6 Piece Bondage Fantasy Set

Are you interested in bondage, but you don't know where to start? Then the beginner's bondage fantasy kit is the right choice for you and your partner to get your BDSM juices flowing.
Price R1,599.00
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