WHAT YOU SHOULD KNOW ABOUT BDSM RESTRAINTS

While some might shy away from the idea of introducing a little bondage and restraint in the bedroom, the truth is many people would be turned on after experiencing it. Restraints are designed to keep a submissive partner from escaping or moving. It gives the Dominant partner complete control.

There is a lot more to bondage and restraint than handcuffs. There are various other adult toys and accessories that can also be used for an insatiable experience.

Fortunately, with the power of the internet at our fingertips, accessing BDSM sex toys (specifically restraints) has become a walk in the park and you can be guaranteed that there is something for everyone, from newbies to fully-fledged experts.

Find what works for you

What works for some may not necessarily work for others but that’s what variety and exploration are for. The most commonly known form of restraint are traditional but effective handcuffs – often used in roleplaying as well.

Beginners might consider cuffs as a starting point to get a feel for bondage play. There are many different styles and designs but all of them are usually easy to use and remove. You could also try bondage tape, which can also be used as a gag.

Full body restraints

Besides cuffs, there are also more comprehensive restraints to make your partner’s entire body submissive and ready for anything you want.

One such example is hogties, which can completely restrain your partner for a truly epic bondage experience. You could also try something like wrist and ankle cuffs. They will allow you and your partner to be fully immersed in a bondage experience without needing to be experts. They are also easy to remove when you’re done.

Most restraints are designed to be gentle on your skin so that it doesn’t create any unnecessary discomfort. The important thing is that you and your partner should not feel any pain unless it’s for pleasure, like a good spanking, and you’ve both agreed to it.

Safety first

You should always ensure that the restraints you use on yourself or your partner are not too tight. Never use restraints around your partner’s neck unless it’s been specifically designed for that purpose, like a collar and leash. Even then, you should always make sure it’s loose enough to fit two fingers in.

At the end of the day, a safe word is highly recommended to make sure things don’t go too far in the bedroom.

Communication is key

If both partners are not entirely comfortable, your bondage experience may turn into something of a nightmare. That’s why communication and trust are essential when it comes to any kind of bondage play. You should take the time to understand both yourself and your partners' limits, as well as any likes and dislikes. It will be crucial in making the experience not only enjoyable but enough to keep both coming back for more.