Fetish & BDSM

BDSM involves erotic roleplaying such as bondage, discipline, dominance and submission, sadomasochism, and other fetishes. There are many different things that satisfy people’s inner desires and there are even more sex toys to help them do it. Whether you’re a professional in the BDSM lifestyle with a need for expert toys and accessories, or you’re a novice who is looking to put their foot in the door, Passionfruit can accommodate you. Curious? Read more...


Our BDSM and Fetish sex toys will inspire your imagination to be extra naughty. Passionfruit’s online adult store is also one of the best in South Africa, giving you a wide range of high-quality BDSM and Fetish toys to choose from. Some well-known BDSM and fetish toys include cuffs, collars and leashes, paddles and whips. We also have a collection of toys from the Fifty Shades of Grey Toys range.

Safety first!

There’s a good reason why there are people considered professionals in this lifestyle. There are many things to consider before experimenting with BDSM. The first and most important is safety. Ensure that you are aware of the risks involved with any roleplaying you intend to do. Also make sure you fully understand the toys and accessories that you want to use in your sessions.

Before attempting anything, have an open discussion with your partner where both of you decide what you would like to experience as well as what your boundaries are.

Types of Fetish and BDSM toys

There are many exciting BDSM and fetish toys to choose from. These are just some of the most popular ones:

● Fetish lingerie

● Gags and muzzles

● Hood and masks

● Electro sex toys

● Medical sex toys

● Paddles and whips

Clamps and torture

BDSM toys and accessories come in a variety of materials also. Some are better geared towards rougher treatment, such as steel, whereas others can provide a more sensual experience, such as leather.

How do I get started in BDSM?

If you’ve never experience the BDSM lifestyle before, then a good place to start would be to determine what your role is. Are you a Dom? Maybe a sub? Maybe you want to try both roles?

These roles may change as time goes on but knowing what you want to get out of the experience will help you decide what sex toys to buy. One very important aspect of the lifestyle is for you and your partner to have a safe word. This word is used during BDSM session when one of the partners decides they’ve had enough.

What sex toy should I use?

Once you’ve decided what role you’d like to fulfill, you can then decide what sex toy to use. If, for example, you’d like to explore a submissive role, you could try a paddle to get spanked with, or a gag to muffle yourself.

Some fetish toys may require more experience and knowledge, such as medical sex toys. Take time to understand the sex toy, what it is used for and maybe even speak to people who’ve used it before. There are many online forums and professional BDSM practitioners where you can find useful info about lifestyle.

Get your BDSM and Fetish toys discretely with us

Are you ready to explore your deepest desires? Why not do it with an online adult sex shop in South Africa that understands your needs? Passionfruit is one of the best sex stores in SA and hosts a wide range of toys for all fetishes.

All our toys are also shipped discretely in plain packaging while your information is protected when shopping online with us.

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Fetish & BDSM

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Transfix Dual Pinwheel

Experience the intense stimulation of BDSM with a unique pinwheel that has 10 rows of sensation spikes! This tool will give true BDSM enthusiasts the satisfying sensations of teasing they’ve been longing for.
Price R699.00
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Leather Belt with Cock Rings and Anal Dildo

Yet another new way of combining pleasure with submission. A truly sexy piece of bondage gear designed for men, this sensational leather harness is adjustable at both hips as well as between the legs. A built in 14cm x 3,5cm anal rubber dildo is permanently attached to the lower strap, holding it in place when worn.
Price R999.00

Zado - Chest Harness (Z-1)

Ready for a night out, but don’t have anything to wear? Worry not because this leather chest harness will give you the look and feeling of sex appeal, setting the tone and atmosphere, whether for yourself and a partner or in your favourite club.
Price R999.00
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Bizarre Garter Pussy Spreader

Open your legs and open up wide! These sexy pussy garter clips create a unique visual and sexual experience. Use the adjustable straps with 4 clips to stretch and open your labia for deep exploration. The labia spreader clips come with a set of black stockings for a sexy and feminine fetish look.
Price R499.00
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Fetish Heavy Duty String

Show off your treasure with this kinky elastic G-String with open crotch and 2 chunky metal chains designed to tease you-know-where! The black elastic band string with studded artificial leather in the front and crotch chains attached to a ring will arouse and tease you and your partner... This eye-catching open-crotch string is one of a kind!
Price R499.00
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