Fetish & BDSM

BDSM involves erotic roleplaying such as bondage, discipline, dominance and submission, sadomasochism, and other fetishes. There are many different things that satisfy people’s inner desires and there are even more sex toys to help them do it. Whether you’re a professional in the BDSM lifestyle with a need for expert toys and accessories, or you’re a novice who is looking to put their foot in the door, Passionfruit can accommodate you. Curious? Read more...


Our BDSM and Fetish sex toys will inspire your imagination to be extra naughty. Passionfruit’s online adult store is also one of the best in South Africa, giving you a wide range of high-quality BDSM and Fetish toys to choose from. Some well-known BDSM and fetish toys include cuffs, collars and leashes, paddles and whips. We also have a collection of toys from the Fifty Shades of Grey Toys range.

Safety first!

There’s a good reason why there are people considered professionals in this lifestyle. There are many things to consider before experimenting with BDSM. The first and most important is safety. Ensure that you are aware of the risks involved with any roleplaying you intend to do. Also make sure you fully understand the toys and accessories that you want to use in your sessions.

Before attempting anything, have an open discussion with your partner where both of you decide what you would like to experience as well as what your boundaries are.

Types of Fetish and BDSM toys

There are many exciting BDSM and fetish toys to choose from. These are just some of the most popular ones:

● Fetish lingerie

● Gags and muzzles

● Hood and masks

● Electro sex toys

● Medical sex toys

● Paddles and whips

Clamps and torture

BDSM toys and accessories come in a variety of materials also. Some are better geared towards rougher treatment, such as steel, whereas others can provide a more sensual experience, such as leather.

How do I get started in BDSM?

If you’ve never experience the BDSM lifestyle before, then a good place to start would be to determine what your role is. Are you a Dom? Maybe a sub? Maybe you want to try both roles?

These roles may change as time goes on but knowing what you want to get out of the experience will help you decide what sex toys to buy. One very important aspect of the lifestyle is for you and your partner to have a safe word. This word is used during BDSM session when one of the partners decides they’ve had enough.

What sex toy should I use?

Once you’ve decided what role you’d like to fulfill, you can then decide what sex toy to use. If, for example, you’d like to explore a submissive role, you could try a paddle to get spanked with, or a gag to muffle yourself.

Some fetish toys may require more experience and knowledge, such as medical sex toys. Take time to understand the sex toy, what it is used for and maybe even speak to people who’ve used it before. There are many online forums and professional BDSM practitioners where you can find useful info about lifestyle.

Get your BDSM and Fetish toys discretely with us

Are you ready to explore your deepest desires? Why not do it with an online adult sex shop in South Africa that understands your needs? Passionfruit is one of the best sex stores in SA and hosts a wide range of toys for all fetishes.

All our toys are also shipped discretely in plain packaging while your information is protected when shopping online with us.

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Fetish & BDSM

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50 Shades of Grey - Adrenaline Pinwheel

A pinwheel is one of the few sensory toys you can use anywhere on the body, add this beautiful pinwheel to play and tease each and every one of your lover's nerve endings. The result? A super-sensitive plaything who'll be left begging for your undivided attention.
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50 Shades of Grey - At My Mercy Nipple Clamps

This wonderful accessory is worn like jewellery and brings a touch of glamour to your BDSM games. Move the slider on the clamps to adjust the intensity of the pinch. The slightly weighted metal beads and chain swing as you move creating some serious stimulation and eye candy.
Price R399.00
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50 Shades of Grey - Please Sir Satin Flogger

A vision in black and metallic silver, this faux leather flogger whip stands out against traditional bondage gear as an exquisite tool of sadism. Delivering teasing strokes and sharp licks, this whip intensifies passions and indulges submissive fantasies.
Price R489.00
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50 Shades of Grey - Restrain Me Bondage Rope

Entwine your submissive in 10 metres of silky soft bondage rope in classic BDSM black and red colours. Durable and strong, the Fifty Shades of Grey Restrain Me Bondage Rope Twin Pack are ideal for Shibari beginners and experts alike.
Price R479.00
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50 Shades of Grey - Tease Feather Tickler

Allow your arousal to mount slowly under the expert touch of this soft feather tickler. Caressing your skin to attention as it teases your flesh, the plume of feathers leaves a trail of goosebumps in its wake to increase your sensitivity and excitement.
Price R299.00
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50 Shades of Grey - The Pinch Nipple Clamps

Revel in the mid-ground between pleasure and pain as you lose yourself to the slowly-intensifying sensations of these weighted nipple clamps. Adjustable pressure grips you during wear to escalate your sensitivity until you beg for your erotic release.
Price R389.00
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