Fetish & BDSM

BDSM involves erotic roleplaying such as bondage, discipline, dominance and submission, sadomasochism, and other fetishes. There are many different things that satisfy people’s inner desires and there are even more sex toys to help them do it. Whether you’re a professional in the BDSM lifestyle with a need for expert toys and accessories, or you’re a novice who is looking to put their foot in the door, Passionfruit can accommodate you. Curious? Read more...


Our BDSM and Fetish sex toys will inspire your imagination to be extra naughty. Passionfruit’s online adult store is also one of the best in South Africa, giving you a wide range of high-quality BDSM and Fetish toys to choose from. Some well-known BDSM and fetish toys include cuffs, collars and leashes, paddles and whips. We also have a collection of toys from the Fifty Shades of Grey Toys range.

Safety first!

There’s a good reason why there are people considered professionals in this lifestyle. There are many things to consider before experimenting with BDSM. The first and most important is safety. Ensure that you are aware of the risks involved with any roleplaying you intend to do. Also make sure you fully understand the toys and accessories that you want to use in your sessions.

Before attempting anything, have an open discussion with your partner where both of you decide what you would like to experience as well as what your boundaries are.

Types of Fetish and BDSM toys

There are many exciting BDSM and fetish toys to choose from. These are just some of the most popular ones:

● Fetish lingerie

● Gags and muzzles

● Hood and masks

● Electro sex toys

● Medical sex toys

● Paddles and whips

Clamps and torture

BDSM toys and accessories come in a variety of materials also. Some are better geared towards rougher treatment, such as steel, whereas others can provide a more sensual experience, such as leather.

How do I get started in BDSM?

If you’ve never experience the BDSM lifestyle before, then a good place to start would be to determine what your role is. Are you a Dom? Maybe a sub? Maybe you want to try both roles?

These roles may change as time goes on but knowing what you want to get out of the experience will help you decide what sex toys to buy. One very important aspect of the lifestyle is for you and your partner to have a safe word. This word is used during BDSM session when one of the partners decides they’ve had enough.

What sex toy should I use?

Once you’ve decided what role you’d like to fulfill, you can then decide what sex toy to use. If, for example, you’d like to explore a submissive role, you could try a paddle to get spanked with, or a gag to muffle yourself.

Some fetish toys may require more experience and knowledge, such as medical sex toys. Take time to understand the sex toy, what it is used for and maybe even speak to people who’ve used it before. There are many online forums and professional BDSM practitioners where you can find useful info about lifestyle.

Get your BDSM and Fetish toys discretely with us

Are you ready to explore your deepest desires? Why not do it with an online adult sex shop in South Africa that understands your needs? Passionfruit is one of the best sex stores in SA and hosts a wide range of toys for all fetishes.

All our toys are also shipped discretely in plain packaging while your information is protected when shopping online with us.

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Fetish & BDSM

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Zado - Floor BDSM Pillory (Z-1)

Doggy style just got sexier and deeper with this floor pillory kit, enabling the user to secure their partner down and enjoy hours of uninterrupted, easy-access and submissive fun.
Price R3,999.00
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Electro Sex - Mystim - A Tension Lover Set

Discover electrical stimulation with the Mystim Range of Electro Sex Toys. The Mystim Tension Lover is a unique and exciting way to bring a new variety of sensuality to the bedroom. You're in control of the rhythm and intensity so experiment alone or with a partner for the ultimate in sensory play.
Price R2,899.00
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Electro Sex - Mystim - Public Enemy No 2

The Pubic Enemy No 2 is a neat and transparent cock cage with e-stim function: He lets you keep a boisterous willy pent up under lock and key so that he can't get stiff until the mistress, or the master, comes with the key and lets him out.
Price R2,299.00
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Universal BDSM Hood

This easily customisable hood will give you and your partner unique BDSM experiences for every occasion! From experts to beginners, your satisfaction is easy when you have the proper gear to fulfil your needs.
Price R2,299.00
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Electro Sex - Mystim - O(h)thello Butt Plug

Electro Sex - Mystim - O(h)thello Butt Plug is suitable for anal use and convinces thanks to its very smooth roundings. Insert and experience the deep and sensuous tingling pulsations of electro stimulation... Its full forms provoke with every move and any smallest stretching of muscles.
Price R1,999.00
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Spreader Bar & Cuffs (ET-9)

Limit your sub's movement with this strong metal spreader bar with cuffs. It can be used to spread your partner’s hands or feet so that you can enjoy your BDSM sessions unrestricted.
Price R1,999.00
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LoveBoxxx - Deluxe BDSM Gift Set

You and your partner can enjoy endless fun and satisfaction with this Deluxe BDSM Set. This Loveboxxx is the perfect gift for BDSM enthusiasts or beginners and contains everything needed for some kinky, wild fun.
Price R1,999.00
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Electro Sex - Mystim - John Butt Plug

Used with the Tension Lover Kit the Electro Sex - Mystim - John Butt Plug packs a punch as it's electrical impulses tingle and stimulate as soon as it's inserted. The hand polished aluminum is easy to glide in and the intensity can be even greater by playing with the temperature of the plug. 
Price R1,799.00
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