There is no “normal” when it comes to penis size. The average differs hugely from country to country and men who think they’re “too small” are actually not.
In South Africa, research has suggested that a man’s penis is generally around 15.2 cm (when erect). However, there would undoubtedly be variations in this average even within South Africa, not to mention globally. In America, for example, the average penis length is 12.9 cm.
Other things to consider...
Besides genetics, there are other factors that could potentially affect the size of your penis. As men grow older, their testosterone levels tend to fall. This can sometimes affect your penis, which may look smaller. This could be due to a buildup in fat around the pubic area.
Despite this, when it comes to the difference between your penis when it is erect or flaccid, it is clear that your flaccid penis doesn’t predict its length when erect. So, you shouldn’t worry if it seems to be shrinking as you age.
How to measure your penis
If you are like most guys, then you have already tried to measure your penis, or you are thinking about it.
However, doing this can sometimes give you a false indication of how long it really is. For example, you should measure your penis when it is erect, not soft. You should also start from the side or underneath the base, against your pubic bone.
If you take a measurement from the base from the top side of your penis, it may be inaccurate because there is often some fat in this area.
Penis size: Do partners care?
Many men think that their partners or potential partners may be dissatisfied with their penis size. The truth is that most partners don’t care and consider the length of their partner’s penis unimportant, according to one study.
In fact, up to 55% of women find that the length of a penis is unimportant, while 22% consider it totally unimportant.
Only a minority of women think that the length of a penis is important. One thing is certain, you don’t need a monster penis to satisfy your partner. You could also use your tongue, hands, and body to tease and please your partner during foreplay.
How to enlarge your penis
If you are still unhappy about your penis length and want to add a little extra to it, then some of the following techniques and toys could help.
Penis pumps: These are sex toys that also have a functional sexual health role as well. By creating a vacuum within the chamber or cylinder, a penis pump draws more blood into your penis, causing it to swell and become erect. The effect can also add extra length and girth to your penis, making it appear bigger. This lasts for about an hour before returning to normal again. Read more on how to pump your way to a bigger penis.
Penis sleeves: To add extra size to your penis instantly, you could use a penis sleeve. They fit over your penis, which extends its length and girth. You can then penetrate your partner, giving them the experience of having someone bigger! The great thing about penis sleeves is that they come in a variety of designs, so you can experiment with different fantasies as well. Penis sleeves are similar to cock extenders, which are also fitted over your penis to make it bigger and better.
Jelqing: This is a manual method that some guys use to increase their penis size. It involves using both your hands in a sort of “milking” movement, drawing blood to the head of your penis. You can try this by wrapping one hand firmly around the base of your penis, then use your other hand to grip your penis and slowly move it up towards the head. Generally, jelqing is safe, but you shouldn’t overdo it.
Conclusion
Yes, you may have some concern about the length of your penis. However, chances are you are fine, and your penis is long enough. If you are serious about extending the length of your penis without surgery, then you can try some of the techniques and toys mentioned, otherwise, just focus on pleasing your partner. As they say, “it’s how you use it that counts”.