Playing alone or with a partner is always more exciting when a few sex toys are involved. But those new to the party may struggle to know what sex toy will get them into the game as a beginner. Fortunately, we’re here to help you find a toy that will have you developing your after-hours skills in no time.
1) A Vibrator
Vibrators come in all shapes and sizes. From small pink ones to advanced machines with multiple settings. It’s probably best to begin with a pocket-sized mini vibrator that is both easy to use and put away when you’re done. A small silicone vibrator will allow you and your partner to stimulate each other at your own pace, exploring what feels best, or what doesn’t. Silicone vibrators also have a soft, smooth texture, which is convenient if you want to use it for vaginal or anal penetration.
2) A Butt Plug
For an experienced person or couple, a large, bulging sex toy can be a bit intimidating, especially if you are keen to put it in your butt. A small butt plug, however, will afford you the opportunity of safe anal play that will help you discover the pleasure of having someone inside your backside. The flared base of butt plugs also means that you don’t have to worry about it disappearing up your butt. You can even leave it in there after inserting it so that you can enjoy yourself, or your partner, while exposing your senses to something different, i.e. being filled up on the inside.
Handcuffs are a cliché, but with good reason. They are versatile in the bedroom to the extent that even an inexperienced couple can enjoy the added kinkiest of being locked up. There is no hard and fast rule on when and how to use handcuffs, but generally, they can be used to restrain a partner so that you can have your way with them. A pair of handcuffs can also help you decide if you want to go a little deeper into the world of roleplay and bondage, or maybe just keep using them on occasion. Just remember not to lose the keys!