HOW TO TALK DIRTY TO YOUR PARTNER

Saying the right things at the right time can make sex, foreplay or simply your relationship so much more exciting. A little dirty talk can feel strange, especially in the beginning. But once you get used to it, sex will be raunchier and wilder, instead of placid and routine.

The important part of talking dirty is focusing on your partner and describing what you see and feel. There’s no point in trying to put all the dirtiest things in your mind out there and expect it to work. It has to be about the here and now. What is your partner wearing? How doesn’t it make you feel? What would you like to do to your partner? These are the types of questions you should be asking yourself.

Don’t overdo it. Like many sexy games, it can be easily overdone. This means saying too much too soon. Think about dirty talk like you would of decoration. Too much and it gets crowded. Talking dirty is something you can slowly weave into your usual sex play. So, for example, rather than just accept that you’re horny and going to try to have sex with your partner, say something about it like, “tonight I’m going to make you beg for more.”

Here are a few more suggestions on how to talk dirty:

1) I’m touching myself right no

To get your partner’s mind prepared for the night ahead, send him/her this message during the day. It could also be said during a quick phone call when you have time.

2) Tell me what you want me to do

Try saying this to your partner while you both have your clothes off. Even if it doesn’t quite get you horny, it will be fun and help set the mood.

3) I want you to touch me

To get things going when you’re alone with your partner, just tell them what you want. This will help break the ice and get things moving in the right direction.

4) I’m not wearing any underwear

This is a sexy way to start a date or end one. It is also a way to play with your partner’s imagination while you’re feeling sexy.

5) I’m wet/hard

Saying you’re ready for sex can be boring, which is why dropping an “I’m wet/hard” can let your partner know that you want some, without being dull.

6) It feels so good, don’t stop

Of course, when you’re in the thick of things you don’t want to focus on anything else. But throwing in a dirty line in here and there can be a thrill ride in itself.