HOW TO GET KINKY AT HOME

If you’ve been living with your partner for a while, sex may start getting boring. This is normal and something most couples go through. But sex doesn’t have to stay boring.

With a little creativity and a willingness to experiment, you and your partner could be having thrilling sex again.

The important thing to remember is that you don’t have to rush. Slowly introduce new sexual activities into your life. Activities that you can do in your house, without worrying about what others will think.

This will let you explore and develop new sexual fantasies that may have been deep inside you, just waiting for the right opportunity to wake up.

Here are some tips for getting kinky at home to spice up your sex life:

Try having sex in new places

Your bed is a nice place to have sex, but it isn’t the only place. Trying out new places in your house to have sex is a quick and easy way to spice things up. You could have sex in the kitchen, the lounge or even the bathroom! This will make sex with your partner feel new and exciting. Besides having sex in different places, you could also use your furniture. This could be your dining room table, your couch and maybe even the kitchen counter.

Introduce some sex toys

There are plenty of sex toys available that are couple friendly.

The LELO range of toys, for example, can give couples a vibrant sexual experience even if they’re beginners with sex toys. Other sex toys, such as butt plugs and vibrators, are easy to introduce into foreplay and increases clitoral Stimulation for the ladies. If you’re nervous about using a sex toy, try out something simple, like massage oil. This will give you the curiosity and confidence to expand your sexual horizons.

If you’re more adventurous, then you could try some BDSM sex toys, such as handcuffs or even a sex swing. This will definitely make your sex life exhilarating very quickly.

Wear lingerie or sexy underwear

This is an old trick but a powerful one. By simply wearing lingerie around the house, it will create a sexy atmosphere. It will send a message to your partner that you’re ready for business. It’s also easy to initiate and the best part is that you don’t even need words. Just put on some sexy stockings in the evening. Or if you’re a guy, you could wear seductive underwear. If lingerie and sexy underwear don’t help in making your home a kinky one, then go a step further. Don’t wear anything at all!

Shower or take a bath together

At first, showering or bathing with your partner might feel awkward. But after a few trial runs you’ll realise that it is actually a great opportunity for some quality intimacy. Even if you don’t have sex in the shower or bath, it can still be an erotic experience that will leave you feeling closer to your partner. This will help you overcome other sexual hurdles in your relationship, like trying new things or sharing fantasies.

Talk dirty and flirt more

Talking dirty takes a lot of practice. You have to know what your partner finds hot and what they don’t. So, when it comes to dirty talk, start by flirting with your partner. Even though you may have been with them for a long time, you may have stopped flirting with them.

This means telling them that they’re sexy or asking them what they’re going to do tonight. Once you’re comfortable with that, let it evolve into more direct sex talk. For example, you could ask your partner during sex or foreplay, “Do you like that?” or “How does that feel?”

Try not to go overboard, because like other things, talking dirty can become annoying if not balanced with other sexy actions, like touch.