EMBARRASSING SEX QUESTIONS - ANSWERED

We all have those questions in our heads. The ones we’re too embarrassed to ask anyone, just remember that someone has already asked, and it has been answered. In this article, we’ve compiled some of the most frequently asked embarrassing sex questions.

I’ve never had an orgasm during sex. Is there something wrong?

It’s not uncommon for some women to struggle to reach orgasm, even with a partner. Known as orgasmic dysfunction, it is believed that up to 41% of women could be affected by it. The reasons for this could be down to any number of physical, emotional, or psychological issues.

If reaching orgasm has become a problem in your sex life, hormone therapy could be a solution. Another option is possibly counselling or sex therapy by a licensed therapist. Your doctor should be able to advise you on the best solution for you. If you simply need more stimulation to orgasm, consider using a sex toy, vibrators and wand massagers, for example, are great at helping you climax.

Where is my G-spot?

The idea of the G spot was first introduced by Dr. Beverly Whipple. She found out that there was an area inside a women’s vagina that could possibly be the key to achieving orgasm during sex. But many women may struggle to find their G-spot because it is actually part of your clitoral network, and its exact place will differ from person to person.

That being said, there is a way to locate it. Insert your finger into your vagina and use it to imitate a “come here” movement, with your finger against the top wall of your vagina. You should continue to repeat this until you feel a tingling sensation that is slightly pleasurable. To help you, you could use a G-spot vibrator, which is designed specifically for finding and stimulating your G-spot.

Can a penis break?

Even though this sounds like a myth, it is possible for a penis to “break”. However, it is not the same as bone-breaking. Since a penis has no bones, when it breaks, or “fractures”, it is the result of the outer lining of the penis rupturing. This can happen if an erect penis faces some kind of extreme trauma, such as being bent forcefully. If this happens, it’s necessary to visit a hospital immediately. 

Is it normal to feel like you have to pee during sex?

Sometimes, the stimulation you get during sex can also put pressure on your bladder or urethra. This can make it feel like you need to go to the bathroom, especially if you have a weakened pelvic floor. This feeling can also last after an orgasm. Strengthening your pelvic floor muscles with Kegel exercises can help with this. 

What should I do if a condom comes off inside me?

So, you had a rough night and may or may not have lost a condom inside yourself. To get it out, you can gently slide your finger into your vagina or butt and pull the condom out by hooking your finger onto the end of the condom. If you struggle to remove the condom, or there are still pieces left inside you, then it’s best to get in touch with your doctor as soon as possible.

Can he feel my orgasm?

The answer is maybe. Some women have powerful orgasms due to strong pelvic muscles. These orgasms can feel like a pulsing sensation around your penis. The orgasms women feel from men also varies. But again, it generally feels like a pulsing, throbbing sensation inside your vagina.

Does pineapple make you smell/taste better?

Although the idea seems tantalising, there is, unfortunately, no scientific research to definitively answer this question. Many people stand by the claim that pineapple makes their vagina or semen taste better. While it is entirely possible that the food you eat affects your body, it’s not 100 percent certain if pineapple can immediately affect your taste/smell. But there’s no harm in trying!

Does regular exercise really lead to better sex?

Absolutely! Regular physical exercise, such as strength training, increases testosterone in your body, which can boost the libido of both men and women. Also, regular exercise is known to be a “natural Viagra” for men and can also result in greater arousal and satisfaction for women. The short answer, get moving!

Can I be allergic to sex?

It is extremely rare for someone to be allergic to sex, and it is most likely due to something other than the sex itself. For example, some people are allergic to latex condoms, while other people may be allergic to the seminal fluid (semen), called seminal plasma hypersensitivity, also known as a semen allergy. 

Can you lose an object/sex toy in your vagina or butt?

Although you can push something deep enough into your vagina so that it feels stuck, it does not actually get suck in the traditional sense. The cervix creates a barrier into the rest of your body, meaning whatever is in your vagina is in a defined space and only has one way out.

If a toy gets “lost” in your butt, then it’s a different story. In this situation, it could move further in if you’re not careful so a trip to the doctor is advisable. To avoid any uncomfortable anal situations, use toys specifically designed for anal sex, like butt plugs.