REVIEW: BAD KITTY SILICONE BALL GAG

When it comes to sex, most people would consider noise to be a good thing. After all, the louder the shouting, the hotter the sex. That’s until you’ve heard the muffled moans of your partner through a gag. Ball gags can satisfy all kinds of fetishes, but they can also be used by couples who want to experience something new and exciting in bed.

My partner and I were new to ball gags, so we decided to try one out. We discovered that it was not only kinky as hell, it added a new dimension of Domination into our sex life that we had not experienced before.

Our journey starts with a pink ball gag from Bad Kitty.

The Unboxing

Unpacking the ball gag was actually quite exciting, even though we have many BDSM sex toys in our bedroom. The reason was because of the quality of the ball gag.

The pink silicone gag is bright and sleek, which is a stark contrast to the black imitation leather of the straps. The result is a sexy item just waiting for the right person to put it on. The silicone of the gag was incredibly smooth to the touch. The straps were strong yet not too rough on the skin. The one downside was the little lock that came with the ball gag. The silver lock is to secure the strap in place once it’s on the wearer. The problem is that the lock was quite light and weak. This didn’t give us confidence that it would stay on if things really got rough.

The Experience:

My partner Kathy was keen to get the show on the road. We decided to bring out our wrist cuffs as well. This would let us bring out the ball gags full colours. After I cuffed Kathy to the bed (she was wearing her collar too), I placed the ball gag in her mouth the straps around her head. The gag fit nicely in her mouth, to the extent that she couldn’t talk at all.

I secured the straps around her head with the lock. A large portion of the strap stuck out and there was no clip or separate leather loop like you get on watches to pull the extra strap through. This was quite uncomfortable for Kathy since it would occasionally tickle her neck or ear, which can ruin an erotic mood.

As for the muffled moans during our session – they were golden. It really is erotic and stimulating to hear your partner try to scream with pleasure through a ball gag. I guess that’s why they’re so popular.

What we enjoy:

• It is beautiful and sexy to look at
• It is easy to use and to take off when you’re done
• Cleaning it is a breeze
• It is very effective at muffling sounds from the wearer’s mouth

What we didn’t enjoy:

• The lock was very light and weak
• The strap stuck out a lot

Conclusion

Even if you’re not completely into BDSM or a ball gag is not something you would consider your fetish, it is still worth trying. It can inspire your mind to be naughtier than what you think and help you find your Dominant side or your submissive side… The great thing about this ball gag is that it can one of those toys that you keep in your bedside table and bring it out during those nights when you’re feeling extra kinky.

*Ted Vincent is an experienced writer who, together with his partner Kathy, uncovers sex-positive topics to help educate and inform readers across SA and the world. His insights are garnered from almost a decade researching and writing about Cape Town’s vibrant sex life.