If you have never experienced a prostate massage or orgasm, then you are in for a treat. It is by far one of the most sensual and satisfying sensations you can give your body.
You may be one of those people who are wondering, what the heck is a prostate massage? Well, it all starts with your prostate gland or P-spot. This is a small gland that can be found between your bladder and penis. If you insert a finger into your anus, it should be about 2 cm away, towards the base of your penis.
The actual purpose of your prostate is to secrete fluid that nourishes and protects sperm. However, much to many people’s delight, it can also be a source of unimaginable pleasure.
What is a prostate massage?
Giving yourself a prostate massage means gently stimulating it with your finger or a prostate massager specifically designed for this purpose. When stimulated, it produces a pleasurable sensation that is hard to describe. It is like having sex, without touching your penis.
Many people use one of their fingers to massage their P-spot. However, you can also use sex toys like vibrators. The benefit of a sex toy is that you can increase the amount of stimulation, and therefore pleasure, you feel.
What is a prostate orgasm?
A prostate orgasm or P-spot orgasm is the mythical beast of the world of pleasure. It is one of those things that almost anyone who has heard of it wants to find or try it.
Unlike a mythical beast, however, this kind of orgasm is very real and very good. If you stimulate your P-spot enough you can give yourself an orgasm. However, it is not the same as a regular orgasm that you experience from genital stimulation.
A prostate orgasm feels more wholesome, intense, and prolonged. Many who have experienced it describe it as a full body orgasm that causes them to shake all over.
Although anyone who stimulates their P-spot can have an orgasm this way, it may not happen the first time or even the second. It can sometimes take a bit of practice. The good news is that the “practice” is really awesome on every level.
How to stimulate the prostate?
As mentioned, stimulating your prostate gland can be done manually with your fingers or with sex toys. The benefit of using your fingers is that it is easier to find the gland this way. The downside is that it can become quite tiring to continually keep the right angle and momentum to get an orgasm.
Alternatively, you can use sex toys. Vibrators and dildos are great at targeting and stimulating your prostate and are easier to use for longer periods of time. If you are really serious about pleasure, then you should invest in a prostate massager. These magical sex toys have been specifically designed to be inserted into your anus and stimulate your P-spot.
Many of the massagers you can get also have varying vibration speeds and modes so that you can really go to town on your prostate. Whether you are using your fingers or a sex toy, you should also use a lot of lube. Lube will help you penetrate your anus without causing any unnecessary pain and discomfort.
FAQ’s On Prostate Play
Does prostate play make a guy cum?
If done correctly, yes, it can make a man cum his brains out.
Who is it for?
Anyone who has a prostate gland and wants to experience intense pleasure.
How to locate the prostate? What does the prostate feel like?
Locating this gland is a matter of inserting a finger into your anus and moving it slowly towards the base of your penis. You will feel a slight jolt and tingling when you run your finger over your P-spot, indicating that you’ve found it.
Will it hurt?
If you go slowly and use enough anal lube, it shouldn’t hurt at all. Although your first time may be a little uncomfortable, that's normal.
What is prostate milking?
Milking refers to massaging your prostate until it produces a thin, milky fluid. Milking your P-spot is a great way to stimulate yourself and can result in truly majestic orgasms.
Tips for beginners
1) Use enough lube. And if you are using a silicone sex toy, make sure you only use water-based lube as silicone-based lube could damage your toy.
2) Practice makes perfect. Don’t force yourself to get a P-spot orgasm. Just enjoy the feeling and you will eventually have one.
3) Good hygiene goes a long way. Make sure you take a good shower or bath beforehand. Remember to cut and file your nails to avoid scratching the delicate skin around the anus.
Now that you have a better idea of stimulating your prostate, there’s no excuse not to have mind-blowing orgasms. Just remember to take it slow and you’ll get there.